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Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Saw this axiom spoken by a Character playing Mother on a Tv Show:

'' Girls are like a book , many guys like to flip it but in the end , they don't have the intention to buy it. That's why girls need to learn to love themselves and not to give their heart away easily by any guy who don't have the intention to keep her forever. ''

By the way if someone you love has changed into someone else in a bad way
. Sometimes it's time to learn to leave the person. You can say '' But i love him/her ''. I've been there , yes i have. But sometimes you have to take a reality check , when the person you love has changed into someone else in a negative way and has been constantly hurting you. The love has become destructive. Learn to let go , learn when to stop. I'm not saying you have to stop loving the person. Sometimes love is not a emotion we can control , but you have to keep away for him/her. Learn to love yourself and do what's right. Unless you don't mind feeding your precious heart with pain & still hold on to such partners becos you think that's the only kind of partner you are worth having.

Some people think they can only feel ''loved'' if they have a partner and are so scared to let go. All along when we are looking for that something special, it has always been inside us. People who come from an family who don't shower them with love often find themselves looking for love in the wrong direction. How well you love yourself is how loved you will feel. Ask yourself why you want a Bf/Gf, what difference does that person make in your life? Perhaps some of your answers is
* Have someone to watch movie with
(Do you know that you can always go watch movie w friends or yourself , in fact you're the master to choose which ever movie you want w/o having a 2nd opinion!)
* Have someone to eat restaurant with
(Go earn your pocket $ and do that yourself. It will feel like a prestigious treat! Go to the restaurant you've always wanted. No you're not a loner. Since when you have to wait so long just to eat what you love?)
* To have someone to kiss & hold me
(Slap yourself for this.Wake up la , cant be bothered to explain. Don't fall into the trap where you will think that giving sex is love. That's freaking nonsense for a guy who doesn't even intent to marry you. If you don't respect yourself , no guy will ever do so.)
* Will have someone who text me every night and day
(Slap yourself for this. Sms is not a entertainment , get a life. People got things to do also , so should you!)
* He will protect me
(No one in this world can be beside you 24/7. Learn to protect yourself , you're stronger than you know)

Till then when you learn to master being alone(not equal to being anti-social ya!), you have overcome loneliness. Trust me on that cos i finally got it.

Whether the person decides to change or not , your happiness does not depend on it.

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